Tag: dating

a reading and commentary of Chapter 7 of Shelley Lubben’s book about the pornography industry

Alexandra Mayers reads a portion of, reviews and provides commentary on Chapter Seven of the book “Truth Behind The Fantasy of Porn – The Greatest Illusion on Earth” – written by the recently deceased anti porn activist, Christian and mother Shelley Lubben.

In this commentary, as Alexandra shares a portion of Chapter Seven, she explains how the story Shelley tells about an abusive man she dated (who turned out to be a violent stalker) is a fairly common situation that sex workers (pornstars, escorts and exotic dancers) often find themselves in. In addition Alexandra explains how serial abusers often target sex workers due to law enforcement (and the judicial system) looking down upon sex workers (whether that be the victim’s current OR past occupation).

Link to the article referenced in regards to pornstar Heather Vahn’s recent claims of abuse:

http://www.pornnewstoday.com/index.php/2020/03/19/another-report-of-extreme-white-privilege-enabled-male-pornstar-abuse-according-to-thedailybeast-com-tommy-wood-is-a-psycho/

 

Bobbi Dylan REPORTS & provides another perspective on the drama between Whitney Wright & Stefan

A few days ago Alex Mayers provided commentary from Melissa Hill in regards to a porn industry professional known as Stefan who appears to have been involved with performer and director Whitney Wright. A warning and history lesson from Melissa Hill in regards to the alleged predator Stefan aka Lorenzo

In this video Bobbi Dylan provides additional insight on the situation and a performer’s perspective on why it may have been a benefit to be “friendly” with Stefan (due to his affiliations with Wicked Pictures, Mike Quasar and Gamma studios). Furthermore Bobbi points out that Whitney likely would be an award nominated director today if she hadn’t dated Stefan.

Mr. Wrong and Mr. Right – learning the difference

Alex Mayers of the Porn News Today collective shares an amazing primer which will help women of all ages and backgrounds (especially adult performers and sex workers) better differentiate between an abusive man (Mr. Wrong) and a psychologically healthy man (Mr. Right).
The outline Alex Mayers shares is from www.Freedomprogramme.co.uk – make sure you follow them on twitter via @Freedomprogramm

Alex Mayers also suggest that adult performers and sex workers follow Ruby @Jraxxx (vice president of the Adult Performers Actors Guild Union – www.ApagUnion.com – @Apagunion) and @Angry_Publicist for additional insight and educational resources pertaining to the civil rights and well being of women, sex workers and adult performers.